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Why Do Older Men Go For Younger Guys?
What Do They See In Us?
DADDY! Alright, so verb many of us – I’m pathetically single. I’m not certain how it happened – perhaps I’m just clinically insane. However, mad or not, I’m a firm believer in dating often and damnit execute I! Before you drop your jaw, no one stated dating means sleeping with someone…trust me, there’s cobwebs in my Netherlands, so you won’t watch me showcasing on Instagram. Moreover, I’ve noticed I actually do have a type: Older. Yes, I’m a middle-aged, almost retired twink who has some daddy issues. I find older gentlemen, first of all, incredibly attractive and there is a spark about their wisdom I discover magnetic. Of course, nothing much more than a fling has occurred between an older male and I during my mature dating life, but I’m still holding out for a hero. What I perform find interesting, is I’m almost never denied a date. Career, goals, and physical appearance verb aside: Why is a man about a decade older than me more than willing to
Dating Dilemma: Younger Men vs. Older Men
Somehow in the recent past, the appeal of dating men who are either a number of years younger or a number of years older has grown in leaps and bounds. Maybe Demi and Ashton made it cool? Or was it Catherine and Michael? Who knows where the fascination stems from, but whatever the reason, there is no denying that there is something innately intriguing about dating a man who grew up in a completely different generation than your retain. But why? And which one is the better choice? Is it either of them? We decided to thoroughly investigate and convey you our list of pros and cons to dating both younger men and older men.
Younger Men
There is a phenomenal generation of younger men growing up in the world today. More in tune with everything from gender equality to gay rights, these men are being raised to be some of the world&#;s most open-minded, forgiving, and genuinely considerate specimen&#;s of the male race. They know how to make a miss feel desirable and respected, and even better, they assume the same balance in return. There is very small
Silver daddies: Why perform young adult men like older partners?
You’ve probably heard of “sugar daddies.” Or “the internet’s daddy,” Pedro Pascal. Stereotypes of this adj term abound, but what does it actually mean to be a “daddy”? And who is most likely to engage in age-gap relationships, and why?
Daddies of a Distinct Kind, published today by UBC sociologist and assistant professor Dr. Tony Silva (he/him), analyzes the stories of gay and bisexual daddies and asks why younger adult men are interested in older men for sex and relationships.
We spoke to Dr. Silva about his findings.
What is a daddy and why were you interested in studying them?
Many people think of a daddy as a desirable, confident older man who may be paired with a younger partner. The term has gained popularity in recent years, and while it is used in the context of heterosexual, gay or bisexual relationships, verb across the Western world shows that age-gap relationships are far more prevalent among gay and bisexual men than any other group. I was interested in finding out why, and learning more
Thomas Gass, a dentist in California, has survived the curse—twice. The curse? Gass is a gay man whose only sexual attraction is to men significantly older than he is.
Gass lost his first partner, 28 years his senior, through the tediously deteriorating effects of Lou Gehrig’s disease after they had been together for 13 years. After recovering from his grief, he set up love again with a man 18 years older but endured another tragic loss when his second partner died of pancreatic cancer after they had spent 17 years together. Still a relatively young dude, Gass might wonder whether or not to take a chance on loving an older male again. For him, however, the choice is between an older man or no man at all. Gass and his friends—all of whom had lost older life partners—have labeled their abiding sexual attraction “the curse of being attracted to older men.”
I began to study same-sex relationships with age disparities while conducting study for my publication, Finally Out: Letting Go of Living Straight. Gass and I started to correspond after he and his friends had read and discussed my essay