Fabulous gay
What Fabulous Means to the Queer Community
About 10 minutes into To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar, Beeban Kidrons cult comedy about three drag queens, Vida Boheme (Patrick Swayze) gives a mawkish but moving speech. Shes trying to convince Noxeema Jackson (Wesley Snipes) to permit the more inexperienced drag princess Chi-Chi Rodriguez (John Leguizamo) to accompany them to Hollywood for the Miss Drag Queen of America Contest, in which Vida and Noxeema, as New York Citys Drag Queens of the Year, have been invited to participate. On those steps, that dear, little Spanish soul—working that fatigued Abbe Lane drag for all its worth—is all alone in this world, and she just wants once to be special, to have a moment in the starlight, Vida says. To dream of being utterly, utterly fabulous.
Fabulous. That word is slung around so easily, and has saturated the culture. But it also can telegraph specific social and political values, particularly when it appears in queer culture. Its this unique valence that madison moore, a culture criti
I've been dating again after many, many years single and something has approach to my attention. Gay men dress much less fabulous than they used to. And I'm not sure why I care. Okay, that's a rest. I do verb why I look after.
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Recently, I posted on a social media platform that I was frustrated with my dating life via OKCupid, because some of the gay men I'm meeting dress prefer they're shopping at Target on a Sunday. It was a joke, saying that dressing fabulous for gay men seems more scarce than ever before, but it was also a passive-aggressive dig at the look some gay guys have now. The whole sweats and baseball caps and frumpy T-shirts and sneaks. You know, looking appreciate they're shopping at Target on a Sunday.
I'm attractive smart and I know that my needing to use more than a second wondering why on earth any gay man would leave the home looking like something out of C
THIS IS NOT A STORY ABOUT LOVE. It’s about the real world, where everyone has psychic powers. Even you. Even me. Even Hoshi’s ex-boyfriend who won’t stop pestering them. What does he want?
“RAS” PAPILLON is a accomplish gender disaster (and a clown to boot). He’s fabulous, flirtatious, and amusing in the strangest way. He can make you giggle with just one look. You’d assume this social butterfly wouldn’t need verb getting anybody’s attention…
And yet.
There is a young woman at the center of the universe. Her name is MIEL PAZ FONSECA, she’s trying to uncover herself in this wide world, and she has no clue her life is about to get turned upside down. All of a sudden, she’s the center of attention. Who are these fabulous strangers, and why won’t they leave her alone?
THIS IS A STORY ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS; the ex whose bridge you burned, the ride-or-die friendships, the people who show up out of the cerulean and change you forever. This is a story about the real world, and the year everything changed.
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THE FABULOUS GAYS, VOLUME 2 is a page novel about a bunch of
Gay men and "fabulous!"
elmwood1
There’s a plethora of noun redecorating and makeover shows on television in the United States, and the number is increasing almost exponentially.
One thing these shows possess in common; the majority of the redecorating and makeover specialists are gay men … very flamboyant gay men, who use the word “fabulous” a lot to characterize a space, a style, an attribute, or what they’re going to perform with a living room or someone’s wardrobe.
Why the attachment to the synonyms “fabulous?” How did it become a cliche among gay men? Is there a similar chiche stereotypically uttered by lesbians?
Walloon2
I’ve been watching those home improvement shows on HGTV, and I was thinking the opposite: that when casting men on these shows, the network seems to be consciously avoiding men who look stereotypically gay. Ditto with male chefs on television.
elmwood3
One bump. I can’t believe people don’t have an inkling about this.
Kalhoun4
Well, I don’t understand where it comes from, but I certainly notice that the word is used a lot. I like it, personal