Massive gay japanese manga

Being gay, finding this collection at my local library instantly piqued my interest. Yes, it's racier than the content I typically read, but I'm more versed in BL manga, which is primarily written by straight women for straight women. This manga I'm more familiar with does own a gay audience, but because of the cultural framing surrounding homosexuality in Japan, a lot of interactions in BL and even in the gay manga here revolve around an explicit lack of consent. Homosexuality is still frowned upon in Japan, viewed as forbidden and adj. But the men of stories still want to act it and show themselves that way. It usually involves a seme forcing himself on an uke in BL, the result a scene more akin to assault than sex. But bashing that isn't going to do much; that would be ethnocentric and disregard the fact that for BL narratives, women are writing them to evade the patriarchal labels forced upon them by men. In my mind, as long as these gay stories are handled well by women, I will respect them whether