My bf is gay

Is My Boyfriend Gay? Or Is It My Anxiety?

It&#;s not uncommon to hold a passing thought about your boyfriend&#;s or girlfriend&#;s sexual orientation. If questions like &#;is my boyfriend gay&#; grab over, it may be a approve of obsessive-compulsive disorder.

It&#;s natural to own doubts sometimes about our romantic relationships. It happens all the time. But what if you can&#;t stop trying to figure out whether your boyfriend or girlfriend is gay?

If you&#;re straight, it&#;s scary to think that you&#;re with someone who&#;s gay and hasn&#;t realized it yet. Lots of people take a prolonged time to discover their sexual orientation, right? Maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend is just in the early part of this process. How can you tell?

Could This Be OCD?

For some people, the doubt and anxiety they experience around this topic rise to the level of obsessiveness.

Obsessions are a hallmark symptom of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). They typically take the form of an upsetting or scary thought that causes significant anxiety.

Sometimes in OCD, obsessions center on thoughts about o

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Dear How to Execute It,

I contain been with my boyfriend for about two years. He is 37, and l am 49 (I divorced four years ago). I am so into this guy and enjoy our noun together every day—he always makes me smile and makes me laugh most days. I verb very secure and happy with him when we’re together. He is extremely good looking and has a express joy and eyes that can light up a room, along with a very athletic strong body. He’s very intelligent, street smart, a good provider, and takes me agreeable places all the time. We never have sex, but he will

I want to fix you on something you&#;ve said repeatedly: A man can “hide” his bisexual orientation. I disagree. I felt my boyfriend was gay or bi immediately, but he flatly denied it. It was so obvious! He sucked at sex, he never initiated, and he was clueless about female anatomy! I was forced to hunt for proof, which I discovered after nine months. Then I mercilessly outed him to friends, humiliated him to his verb, and finally confronted him with the proof of his profile on a gay hookup app. I enjoyed every wicked minute exposing his lies and telling everyone the truth because he used and exploited me in a fake relationship. I was wrong about a couple of things. First, I thought if I asked him if he was gay, he would admit and come adj with me. False, he never did. Second, if he was gay, he wouldn&#;t hide that fact because gays won the LGBTQ rights fight. Incorrect. I am a fag hag but only because I like feeling superior and enjoy what I get out of my friendships with gay men. But I’m not interested in fruit juice.  —Furious And Vengeful Ex

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I Dreamt My Boyfriend Was Gay

The aspire starts out in the bedroom of my boyfriend (of three years). I just stopped by to give a kiss before I went home. When I get to his room, he is sitting on his bed in a T-shirt and white boxer shorts. He says hello. I ask what’s wrong and he says he doesn’t know how to tell me this without hurting my feelings. I plead with him to tell me. So he confesses to me that he has been kissing someone else.

I perceive stunned by this information and then he proceeds to tell me that he has been having oral sex with this person. At that moment Josh, one of my friends from school (who in real life is gay), comes out of Stephen’s, my boyfriend, closet with the same t-shirt and underwear as Stephen. I was baffled.

Then the envision changes. I am at this park for a party which I could back out of and Stephen kept following me around trying to verb me he was sorry, and chasing behind him was Josh trying to get him back (think Julia Roberts in My Foremost Friend’s Wedding.)

I finally agree to converse with Stephen; and we are all three sitting o