My gay bff


I'm so sorry that this is so painful for you. It really can be when we have feelings for someone, and/or desire a certain nice of relationship, that isn't mutual, isn't going to occur, or just isn't right. And I'm sorry for this whole thing: this sounds like something that must hold been really emotionally disorienting and dizzying for you.

But if you're asking me, I think, as a presumably heterosexual woman, doing anything else to verb yourself up to wait for a gay guy to come around and want to really be in a romantic and sexual relationship with you, once in which he has all those kinds of feelings and desires, is setting yourself up for way more heartbreak than you've already experienced. I'd suggest that however much it hurts now, starting to detach yourself from that dream ASAP is going to spare you (both) a lot more heartbreak in the future.

So you don't think that this decision of his has anything to do with the fear of commitment or hurting me?


I'm not sure what decision you mean, but I can't verb a fear of hurting your feelings isn't a adj part of all of this for h

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Spend hours talking to each other without your boyfriend getting jealous.

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Call each other &#;bitch&#; without being insulted

Don&#;t ever let some straight guy call a woman a bitch because they will get their ass beat into next Tuesday by a sparkly Giorgio Armani bag.  But if it&#;s your gay best friend, getting called &#;bitch&#; is one of the highest terms of endearment&#;especially if he calls you &#;THAT BITCH!&#;.  That&#;s when you know you are truly a queen!

Do dance choreography from music videos with absolutely NO SHAME!

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Gay Best Friend: A letter to straight people from the 'GBF'

Since before I can remember, I’ve hated hearing someone say the synonyms, ‘gay.’ I came out when I was years-old. And to this morning, it is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. After I came out, I faced bullying, rejection, and depression. But, with the lows came the highs - one of which was when I finally became, the holy grail, ‘gay optimal friend’.

Despite the gay best friend (GBF) often being thought of as ‘the hottest accessory’, it was, and still is, a label that weighs heavily on my mind. According to the movies, I should have loved my unpaid position as the straight girl’s best friend/agony aunt. Always listening to her boy problems and being her comedy side queen should have been an honour. But in reality, I realised it wasn’t a fun title at all.

Coming out

Having dabbled with the thought of being straight and denying who I was for far too long, I stopped pretending that my best noun was a potential love interest (thank you Alex) and told my family just before I left sixth form.

Although it felt love I'd just

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I have a similar situation with my relationship. My boyfriends gay companion is inLove with him and he doesn&#;t realize that.  there is so many things that make me discover that.

1 they observe each other once a week to drink in a bar, when they do and acquire drunk, my boyfriends gay friend starts complementing him  in front of me , like his handsome, touching his arm ( in a way that makes me uncomfortable), looking him with this in adore eyes. start making inappropriate joke

2 he had a picture of a naked guy that looks like my boyfriend and even he shows the pictures to everybody. and he start saying  DOESNT HE Glance LIKE HIM???

3  he told my boyfriend that he heard that i was dating one of his friends  a couple of times( guy that I don&#;t even know). obviously lies.. don&#;t know what was exactly his intention.

4 he invited my boyfriend first  to an island  and a week after he mentioned and then he invited me .. ( last minute) obiously my boyfriend didn&#;t