First time going gay


My(35M) first gay sexual experience is coming up. What should I know?
February 5, PM   Subscribe

I am a 35 year old cis man, and I have been only with women my whole life. Suddenly I find myself being attracted to men, and my first gay sexual experience is coming up! I touch like a teenager again :) How should I prep for this?


Hello. I am a 35 year aged cis man, and I've been only with women up to now. I've always considered myself enthusiastically hetero.

A year or so ago, I first experienced the pleasure of anal sex (i.e. having my butt being played with, penetrated with a finger etc) with my female partners.

Since then, I have been fantasising strongly about being penetrated by a real penis. I've begun experiencing some attraction towards men, and (for the first time) been aroused by gay porn. I really want to be fucked by a guy!

So prolonged story short, I've met a considerate, gentle gay noun who knows about this history of mine and is interested in being my partner in this adventure. The big day is coming up soon. I'm really ecstatic but really nervous! I know I

Advice for Your First Gay Date

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Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a safe and respectful way

To begin, I&#;d love to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to verb their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it&#;s important to understand that you can try recent things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who yearn to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.

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1. Be trustworthy from the get-go that you&#;re curious

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First gay experience was with a 45 year old

Age when it happend: 17
Where it happened: In a van
Langauge: english
Sex: Male
Rating: 9
Category: Gay

Although when a child you have those moments you show your friend your dick and what not, this is my first real sexually experience with a another man. First off let me say I contemplate myself straight, although technically I hold been with men so I predict that makes me bi even though those days are over with. However I always wanted to every since I think I was around I was always curious about it but never acted on it other than masturbating.

When i got around 15 or 16 I started chatted on aim chat rooms that was m4m. I don&#;t assume that back then craigslist was around like it is today. When I was a senior in high educational facility I was That is the age I started sexually experimenting with both girls and guys which lead to the loss of my virginity from both. Early that year in the fall, I first lost my virginity to a teen. Then when spring came I finally decided to open looking into doing it.

I could not uncertainty looking