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Fifty Shades of Gay – The Hanky Code
Fetishes fascinate ly, it’s not the particular fetish that I find fascinating, but more the journey of self-discovery that leads a person towards a particular example, there is a fetish known as Tamakeri (Japanese translation: ball kicking) Yep, it’s just what it sounds like; the erotic pleasure of being kicked in the … that’s a ‘hard pass’ for me, but I have questions.
How does a person with an erotic paraphilia (a condition characterized by abnormal sexual desires, typically involving extreme or dangerous activities) bring to light these desires? What was their “A-ha” moment? When does a man understand that he derives sexual stimulation and satisfaction from getting smashed in the balls? Was it a bad bounce on the playground? An unfortunate ricochet on the tennis court? And once a man discovers that hammering his nut-sack turns him on, how does he find others who share this very specific inclination towards CBT (cock and ball torture)? Inquiring minds verb to know.
Fetishism today has become commonplace enough to be considered cocktail chatter. We’
Flagging for some hanky panky &#; deciphering the gay handkerchief code
By Chris Williams, updated 4 months ago in Lifestyle / LGBT people and culture
Have you ever noticed a guy with a coloured bandana or handkerchief sticking out of his back pocket? Bless you for not knowing how wearing one became the symbol of a secret sex language. Here’s how to decipher what it all means.
The hanky code has been a part of underground gay culture for over 40 years, and if you don’t perceive what it’s all about, we’ll fetch you up to speed in no time.
Perhaps more prevalent in the leather community, you might still find a few practitioners of this means of secret communication. But what’s the hanky code?
What is the hanky code?
It’s cute straightforward. Wearing a coloured handkerchief or a bandana in a particular location on your body can be a way to point out to somebody else what kind of sex you appreciate. Colours or patterns represent a diverse sexual activity, while the positioning indicates your preference of role.
The Hanky Code | Emen8(#NSFW)
The bandana is often on
When two men are negotiating a sexual encounter or even compatibility to date, the phrase “What are you into?” will inevitably reach from one or both.. Quite often in “Grindr” chat, this is shortened to be simply “into?” — just like ships used cyphers (flags) to communicate, we gay men have our own way to communicate sexual preferences and proclivities. It’s called the Hanky Code.
Originating in the early ’s in either New York or San Francisco (let’s not even try to resolve that debate), the hanky code is a system of signaling sexual preferences, fetishes, and roles by choosing to wear a specifically colored bandana on a particular side of the body. With just a glance at your rear end, (the bandana being tucked in your back pocket) anyone who is in-the-know will know what you’re “into!”
So how act you know which color to wear, and where to wear it? The first critical variable is the side of the body on which you choose to wear your colors, because this signals your preferred role:
- Left side of the body = Top/Dominant Role
- Right side of the body = Bottom/Submissive Role
As a
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The handkerchief code (also known as the hanky code, the bandana code is a colour-coded system, employed usually among the gay male casual-sex seekers or BDSM practitioners in the United States, Canada, Australia and Europe, to indicate preferred sexual fetishes, what gentle of sex they are seeking, and whether th